In 2008 I had been stuck on a project for over two years. I had purchased an animation model of the bones, muscles and clear skin to teach movement skills, for $12,500 after listing numerous important joint stabilizer muscles that I needed. The sales guy assured me that I would love this software even though these muscles were missing.
Plus, one animator backed out; another stopped returning communication after I paid him a retainer; and the third one let me know that many of the muscles were missing and backed out. I was getting frustrated and angry - especially with the sales guy. I began to imagine driving to Utah to hurt him but it made me feel toxic.
I tapped one night, in the way Roy taught me, to let go of this toxic fantasy. It felt good to hand it over to the universe and know I let go of my resentment and victimhood. I woke up to a call from a friend telling me that the head of the media lab on Chico state campus would be calling. It all fell into place. He sent a student animator who corrected the model and made the animations.
There were numerous smaller victories over the years and a few years ago I had another life changing experience with Roy. This time we didn't tap. I asked Roy why I would want to use OEFT - Optimal Emotional Freedom Technique. Roy asked if I was embarrassed about anything in my past. I remembered bullying a guy in high school and said yes.
I had tried to find him when the internet started and when facebook started to apologize. Roy asked for help from "unseen therapist". We meditated for three minutes. A couple hours later I went on facebook and his name and address popped up in a 50 year high school reunion page. I sent a card with an apology and a week or so later I got a card starting - "You are forgiven.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!". I had carried the bad feeling for 50 years and it resolved in a flash.